Manifesting the life of your dreams takes courage and persistence.
Stating what you want to manifest in your life can be a scary question to answer especially if you’ve suffered a setback or the fallout of a major event.
During the Great Recession I was in a yoga class and the instructor asked us to close our eyes and imagine our future life. When I closed my eyes, there were no glimmers of my bright future. It was just dark. In fact, it was pitch black.
To make matters worse, she had tarot cards and asked each of us to take turns choosing two cards. Both of mine essentially represented doom and gloom. It was truly reflective of how my life felt and the validation didn’t make it feel better. However, what’s impressive is that I eventually pulled myself out of that dark place with just sheer will.
My family often comments about my level of resilience as though it’s some innate gift. It’s not a gift but rather years of refining strategies to overcome setbacks in light of the significant economic and other events during the last few decades.
A vision for your life doesn’t strike like a lightening bolt. It takes time to generate ideas, test them out and piece together the ones that help you form a vision worthy of your pursuit. I’ve distilled the most important strategies to help you through the process.
Five tips to manifest the courage to pursue the life of your dreams:
1/ Identify your values
Take time and whittle the values list down to two guiding principle for your life. It’s a process in itself but a worthy one. Identifying your values will give you the framework to quickly assess opportunities as they present and keep you focused on those that are important to you.
2/ Keep an ideas journal
As ideas surface, write them down. As you read, capture the words and references that catch your attention. As you learn, jot down the most important parts of the lesson or put those learnings into action. Brainstorm.
Periodically review your journal. What you’ll notice is that a lot of the words and ideas start to connect with the action that you’re taking to move your life forward.
3/ Start your day with gratitude
Write down the top three things that you’re grateful for and your goals for the day. If you’re not mindful for all the good things in your life, it’s easy for the dark things to consume your thoughts. Nothing good comes from thoughts of doom and gloom.
Writing your goals for the day will keep you focused on the steps that you can take now and checking off the list will give you a little high. Progress feels good.
4/ Move your body
Maintaining a fitness routine will prevent you from slipping into a really dark place and help get your creative juices flowing. Make it a priority and make it something that you look forward to doing. If you walk, treat yourself to a coffee, window shop or change up your routes.
5/ Don’t give up
When I wanted to move to San Francisco, I called every week about the same job and essentially left the same voicemail for months. No response. I eventually gave up and signed a new lease in a better neighborhood that had elements of the lifestyle that I wanted. It was a good compromise.
As soon as I started packing my apartment, I got the call back. Within a month, I moved to San Francisco. Since then, I trust that the things that I really want will eventually happen.
All of the steps you take eventually get you to the life you want if you don’t give up. Things worthy of your dreams take time and effort to achieve. If you’ve come up short or gotten knocked down, remember… you haven’t failed until you give up. Get up and keep going.
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